What to do when you don't feel 'valued' in a marraige?

The " What to do " varies with circumstances surrounding you. Man/ woman can be emotionally abused when living far from their parents. The one having a superior income may feel placed in a position to abuse the other party. No matter the reasons to be abusive, this behavior may stem from a lack of concern or love for you. I suggest that you do not give up your schooling as this may the only pillar you will have in the years ahead. It is best to be alone than having a weak link as partner. I am afraid that you will never do enough to please him. Usually, I do not advise anyone to get a divorce but, I strongly counsel you to open your eyes and let no man drive you in a ditch in the name of love or a marriage standing on no legs. I know of many women who after a divorce went back to you and become independent through their new career. The husband they had was pure hindrance in their life. Be strong and do the right thing for yourself.